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I’ve asked some people in my marriage compatibility mailing list, wanting to know about their marriage compatibility difficulties and things they would like to hear about it. I have had a lot of responses to that email, so it seems great idea to answer the 3 of the questions that I found common in this article. Here you go.

1) How to be sure my spouse really loves me?

Ok. I’ll try to be very tactful here. What about this - if you truly loves a guy or a girl what would you do to prove that? How would you make it clear for your spouse to get it that you really feel all warm and loving about him or her?

Basically - you try to show your liking toward that person, right? You demonstrate that it is interesting what that person tells you, maybe even look up at the person for something and certainly care in whatever happens to that person. Your eyes sparkle when looking at the significant one. You seem very enthusiastic be just two of you with the guy or girl.

Do you feel that kind of loving from your partner? Is there some kind of interest in you? Convey sympathy? Come on and test your feelings.

2) How to bring more of affection in our relationship?

True love basically depends on really agreeing and I would say admire what you see in the other person and what he or she tells you. So, you can try to look good for your partner and ALSO try to be more interesting for your partner. Make notes what your partner likes in the way you look and improve it. And, on the contrary, you might consider hiding the things that your partner prefers not to see in you.

I am not telling about becoming obsessed on being exactly what other people consider that you should be, because there lays depression and hard time getting other people to like you. No, I’m talking about having your guys’ time together as pleasantly and enjoyable to both of you as possible.

And I certainly propose you give compliments to things you adore about your partner. And, on the contrary, suggest some small betterment, but very gently and never demanding. As in: “You know, that tie would look so nice on you, why wouldn’t you try it on you?”

I talk more in my free marriage compatibility report to know more about being fascinating to your partner.

3) The toughest thing about keeping a relationship alive is not to get annoyed on your partner.

I certainly agree with that. Judging by the experience I gained, a person can react to things, which kind of look to him like some bad things that he experienced in the past. And those reactions can happen with no control over them from his part.

One good thing about it - the more rested we are and the better our temper is, the less is the possibility that such outbursts can happen to us. So my suggestion is - rest more and do your best to keep your temper in good shape. I’ll give some good advice on this in my future articles.

Alexander Stern is an expert in relationship compatibility testing and improvement. Download his FREE Relationship Compatibility Report and visit the Relationship Compatibility Advice Blog