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There are many elements to a sexual massage. There’s the ’setting’ or relaxing ambiance that you need to create, the massage oils and creams you need to use, and of course… some other extra ‘massage aids’.

Using items of different textures can help both relax and increase the sexual tension or anticipation during a sexual massage. Below is a quick rundown of the things you can use to bring about different responses from her.

Special Sexual Messages Call for the Use of ‘Sexy Textures’

The use of different textures during a sexual massage is a great idea but be sure to use them in the right order. In general, use the harder fabrics or textures first, and end the massage with the one that offers the softest touch.

Also, the time to switch textures is AFTER you have given her body a thorough kneading (deep pressure massage) with the texture you are currently using. This makes her body relaxed and thus more receptive to the texture change.

One last tip: avoid massage oil when you are using fabrics because it clogs up the fabric, making it useless (because the texture it’s supposed to convey is not there anymore).

Now, on to the ’sexy textures’!

Wooden Massage Roller
A good, hand-held, wooden massage roller (for example, one with wooden beads that roll as you use it) is a great way to start a sexual massage because it helps her ‘loosen up’ her tight muscles.

As you roll it up and down her back, be sure you tease her by pressing your naked body against her so she can feel your erect penis between her legs.

Double-Sided Massage Glove
Another great massage aid is a double-sided massage glove such as one that has, say, velvet on one side, and fur on the other.

Give her a deep pressure massage using one texture and then switch to the other one. This will make her relax while heightening her sense of feel or touch.

Silk / Satin
You don’t always have to purchase massage aids you know. If budget is a concern, a quick look in her drawer can reveal clothing that’s made of silk or satin. Use them during a sexual massage or as an ‘intermission’.

By intermission, I mean to use it in-between deep massage sessions. For example, you can give her a general hands-only massage of her back and then before you progress to other body parts, you can use the silk or satin and glide it teasingly over her back.

Naughty tip: After you glide the silk or satin fabric over her back, gently wedge it between her buttocks. Tell her you are just putting it there for easy access later. Of course, what you’re really trying to do is heighten the sexual tension by letting your fingers angle their way between her butt and if you so happen to linger on her anus, then so be it!

Feathers
Feathers are great sexy, teasing textures but don’t do it at the start of the massage. It’s plain annoying because it’s ticklish and her body has not relaxed yet. So do the full massage first and end by running the feather all over her body as a ‘final act’.

Naughty tip: End the feather running on her groin. Open her legs so that she’s exposed to you in all her glory. Massage her thighs so that she quivers in anticipation. Then use the feather on her wet and glistening vagina for a sexual massage ending she won’t forget.

And now for the ultimate ‘texture treat’… drum roll please… Your Tongue.
Budget concerns or not, your tongue is one of best texture treats she can get during a sexual massage!

But let’s get practical here. No one expects you to massage her whole body with your tongue! (You’ll be exhausted half-way along the way.) You can use your tongue as a great ending though.

For instance, finished massaging her back? Run your hot tongue along her spine. That’s it. Finished massaging her back legs? Run your tongue at that sensitive juncture at the back of her knee. Finished massaging her front body, run your tongue from collar bone to belly-button (or further if you like). Finished massaging her breasts, run your tongue ONCE around her areola. Finished massaging her thighs and genital area, run your tongue… AS OFTEN AS DESIRED.

Play with textures the next time you give a sexual massage. You won’t regret it.

Gabrielle Moore is the co-author of The G Spot Code. It teaches men how to please women with G Spot orgasms every time. For more information, go to: http://www.thegspotcode.com