Why You Should Create Your Own X-Rated Videos
Posted by Aberez in SexualityNo thanks to the Internet and the entertainment world, it seems that videotaping your own private ‘adult’ moments is risky business.
In fact, if you broach this topic to your partner now, she’ll probably stare at you in disbelief as her mind races through the horrors of your lovemaking been seen online by family and friends.
That’s why I’m encouraging you to not discuss this with your partner yet. Be prepared with your arguments first. This will make it easier for you to convince your partner later on to create and participate in your own private, adult video productions.
5 Reasons Why Creating (and Starring) in your Own Adult Videos is a Great Idea
Some men are lucky enough to have partners that are extremely ‘game’ and who need no convincing at all why making private x-rated videos is a great idea. For the rest, here are some of the main reasons why creating your own x-rated video can work wonders for your relationship.
It’s great foreplay.
X-rated videos can be the ultimate turn on! For men, I’m sure that you’ve had your share of taking a peak at adult rated videos and sites online. And while you may think that you’re the only one doing this, you might be surprised to know that she’s doing the same when you’re not around.
X-rated videos sexually arouse people. Period. And this is exactly why creating your own adult videos makes for great foreplay in your relationship. Picture this: you receive a seemingly innocent email from your woman with a link in it.
You click the link and you’re brought to her personal online page and here you see a very erotic video of your woman. Now, doesn’t that make you want to go home from work early?
It spices up a relationship that is in danger of entering the ‘routine’ phase.
Many couples complain that after a certain time, their sex lives enter the routine phase. They know exactly what to do in bed, and just about how many minutes lovemaking lasts. Well, the cure to this ‘relationship disease’ is to ensure that your love life is always exciting! And one way to ensure this is to surprise each other once in a while on just how naughty you guys can be. Think about it. If you (or she) is THAT naughty in front of the camera, imagine how far you can push each other in bed sexually.
It brings out sexual fantasies to life.
Do not delude yourself into thinking that men are the only ones with an active sexual imagination; women are too! The only difference is that most women are not vocal about their sexual desires.
One way to bring out these sexual fantasies is to engage in erotic videos. Once she starts to bring out that side of her in front of the camera, you can bet that she’ll be more daring in bed with you!
It improves self-confidence.
One of the common barriers to not engaging in one’s own adult videos is the lack of self-confidence. Even those arguments such as ‘the video may leak online’ can actually mean ‘I don’t want people to see my body’.
Men and women (albeit, women more so) have many body issues. If your partner is such a person, then re-assure her first just how much you love her body and how great she looks. Often, this entails nothing more than commenting on how good she looks in that dress/blouse/jeans. While making love, running your hands over her body and commenting on how beautiful she looks tremendously boosts a woman’s elf-confidence already.
By dealing with these initial self-consciousness issues, you are better able to convince your partner to create and ’star’ in your own erotic videos. And then you will soon realize that the more you guys create these adult videos, the more self-confidence you actually gain!
It paves the way for a deeper, more trusting bond between the two of you.
When you videotape yourself for your partner, you are communicating the fact that you trust him/her. And this trust leads to a deeper connection in your relationship. Consequently, when you allow yourselves to be recorded while making love, you are deepening your bond with each other.
For starters, if you’re finding your partner a bit resistant to the idea of creating your own x-rated videos, then it may be a good idea to do your own little, private video first and then show it to your partner. As your woman gets turned on, she’ll slowly realize how erotic personal x-rated videos can be and will most likely be more open to send you one of her own!
Don’t immediately push for an all-out sex tape. If she’s more comfortable exploring this on her own first, then let it be. She’ll reach the point when she’s ready for a ‘full blown production’ soon enough.
Gabrielle Moore is owner of The Female Orgasm Revealed, a site to help men please their female partners with an orgasm every time. For more information, go to: http://www.femaleorgasmrevealed.com
