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Coping With Your Teenager’s Inappropriate Fashion Trends

Posted by RadioactiveLiberty in Teenagers

     

If you’re the parent of a teenager, then you know how teens like to keep up with the latest fashion trends. This is understandable, as teens are trying to establish their own identity, outside of identifying with their parents. However, there is the likelihood that some of these fashions may seem inappropriate, even to the most lenient of parents, and especially to those who are more conservative in nature. You don’t really want your daughter in short shorts, or low cut tops, and you probably don’t want your son looking like a thug or hoodlum. Where do you draw the line between your teen dressing in trendy fashions and dressing inappropriately? Perhaps, more importantly, how do you draw the line?

When it comes to dealing with your teenager and the fashion trends you don’t find acceptable, your first reaction may be to lay down the law, and rule with an iron fist. You are the parent, after all, and in your home, your rules must be followed. That’s a fair agreement, isn’t it? However, this sort of philosophy may do more harm than good. Just think back to when you were a teenager. Most likely, you would respond unfavorably to being told how to dress by your parents. That may have worked well as a child, but teenagers want to establish their own independence and identity. The best option is to take a different approach than the authoritarian one.

One of the many cases where you most certainly should speak with your teen about their fashion choices is where those choices could end up causing harm. Many of the teen fashion trends involve wearing clothes that are quite revealing. This can send a dangerous message that your teen is marketing himself or herself sexually. Your teenager probably won’t see it this way, but those who see your child very well may get that message, whether it was intended or not.

In this case, you should sit down and explain your concerns. Let your teen know that there is the possibility that sexual predators may interpret their provocative fashion style as being an invitation to receive attention. Calmly explain that if this is not the message that he or she wishes to send, then perhaps it would be wise to reconsider his or her fashion choices. Taking the time to explain the logical reasons behind your concerns will be more likely to be effective than simply demanding, “You aren’t leaving the house in those clothes.” You may even find that your teenager feels a sense of gratitude that you treated him/her in a more adult manner, and be more compliant with your wishes, realizing that your position on the issue stems from actual concerns for his or her well being.

You and your teenager should also be aware that fashion trends can sometimes change rapidly. What’s in today, may be out in just a few months, never to come back in style. It’s entirely possible that the fashion trend your teenager seems so enamored with, and that you detest so much will be a quickly passing phase.

You could also work together with your teen to look at trends that the two of you can agree upon. There is a wide variety of fashion magazines and online fashion sites that you can explore with your teen to look at alternative trends that may be more acceptable. You can point out things that, whether you appreciate the taste of them or not, are fashions that you would find to be within the confines of what is acceptable. This could also turn into a fun bonding experience, as well as a good way to come to a compromise with your teenager.

One more benefit of finding common ground with your teenager on what fashions are acceptable is that it could reduce friction between your teen and school dress code policy. Just as teenagers don’t like being told “you can’t wear that” by you, they can also resent the enforcement of a school dress code. Schools often prohibit students from wearing certain types of clothing, especially offensive or revealing clothes. Learning to work together with your teen may have the benefit of preventing an issue with school authorities from ever becoming a problem, or resulting in any sort of suspension or disciplinary action.

Taking these few steps to try to cooperate with you teenager instead of ruling your teenager should help reduce the level of conflict that you have between each other. Teens like to be fashionable, but that doesn’t mean that they have to wear things that are inappropriate. By working together, you can help your teenager to understand why it is your duty as a parent to impose a more responsible sense of fashion.

At Design Your Own Prom Dress Online you can find other fashion tips, including How to Turn Your Prom Dress Design into a Real Prom Dress.

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Predicting Your Pregnancy Due Date

Posted by WMMedia in Pregnancy and Family Planning

     

It is important to predict your pregnancy due date so that you can make plans for the baby arrival. It is also important to have a good approximation of the due date so that you will know what signs to look for and what to expect in each of the three stages of pregnancy. It is important for your health and the health of the baby to know when the baby will be born. Doctors use an ovulation chart to help determine your due date. You have to know the date of your last menstrual period. By using the wheel of the chart, your doctor will then give you an approximate date. The chart works by adding 7 days to the date of your last period and then counting back three months.

You can also use a free online calculator to help determine when your baby is due. You also need to know the date of your last menstrual period to use this tool as well. All you do is enter the date and click the submit button to receive the due date result. When you use this calculator it is important that you know the length on your menstrual cycle. While the norm is that women have a period every twenty-eight days, some women have longer cycles than this. The calculator is based on a 28-day cycle, so if this doesn fit your profile, you will not get an accurate date. When you enter the date of your last menstrual period into a due date calculator, you must adjust the number for the length of the menstrual cycle. Like the doctor calculation, it is based on the belief that you conceived on the day following the end of your menstrual period.

When you choose a site that offers a due date calculator, you also get a wealth of information about pregnancy. Knowing the month in which you conceived can help you use the Chinese Pregnancy Calendar to predict the gender of your baby. You can follow along a month by month progession of the baby growth through the ultrasound pictures of a baby at each stage of development. This will help you understand what is happening inside your body. There is also loads of information about the stages of pregnancy and what you can expect in physical and emotional changes and how to deal with them.

These sites also have question and answer pages where you can get answers to questions that expectant mothers commonly ask. If you are in doubt about the accuracy of the answers, ask the same questions of your doctor. There is no doubt you will get the same answers. You can also access a pregnancy dictionary so that you learn the pregnancy terms that doctors and nurses use when talking about pregnancy issues. If you suspect you may have a problem with your pregnancy, you can also get information to help you on such a site. However, this doesn replace the advice of your doctor, but will help you understand that what you may think is an emergency may in fact be normal for a pregnant woman.

For more information on predicting your pregnancy due date,the Chinese pregnancy calendar and very early signs of pregnancy visit http://www.Pregnancy-Articles.com

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The Changes That Take Place In The 11th Week Of Pregnancy

Posted by WMMedia in Pregnancy and Family Planning

     

By the time you have reached the 11th week of pregnancy, you will have noticed a lot of changes in your body and there are more to come. Although your baby is growing quite quickly in the uterus, your belly may not be really big just yet. In fact, if you haven made the announcement that you are pregnant, some of your friends and family may not even notice any changes. You will find that your breasts are starting to enlarge somewhat and that your pants are fitting a little more tightly around the waist. You shouldn be too concerned if you haven gained any weight and if you have had intense morning sickness, it is quite normal to lose weight in the first trimester.

You will still be experiencing morning sickness, but it may be decreasing a bit and you are looking forward to the second trimester in which the nausea is supposed to subside all together. Just in case you are one of the expectant mothers who do have morning sickness for the duration of the pregnancy, you shouldn plan on it happening, but just wait and see.

You will notice changes in your hair growth. If you experienced hair loss when you first became pregnant, now you will see the opposite effect. You will have faster than normal hair growth, which may or may not make it easier for you to get ready for work each day. It may mean more frequent trips to the hair dresser. You may also notice hair growth on other parts of your body because of the increase in hormones, such as on your chest. You shouldn be alarmed by this as it is normal and the hair growth will stop once the baby is born. If it really bothers you, though, you can engage in waxing or even electrolysis during pregnancy to get rid of the unwanted hair. Your nails too will grow faster.

By the 11th week of your pregnancy, the baby weighs only about a half ounce and is less than three inches in length. The head is much larger than the rest of the body ?accounting for over half of the weight and length. By this week the toes and fingers have separated and although the body is transparent, the bones have started to harden. You won be able to tell at this point if you are having a boy or a girl because the sex organs have not yet fully developed.

While you can travel during any point during your pregnancy up to the 36th week, you may feel more comfortable putting off any travel plans until you reach the second trimester or at least until you no longer have any morning sickness. There are many books you can read about what to expect in the remainder of your pregnancy and now is a great time to get started. It is perhaps a little too early to start any serious shopping for the baby, but you will likely spend some time wandering around the children department when you go to the stores.

For more information on the 11th week of pregnancy,pregnancy week 16 and the 17th week of pregnancy visit http://www.Pregnancy-WeekbyWeek.info

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Start Preparing For Labour In The 34th Week Of Pregnancy

Posted by WMMedia in Pregnancy and Family Planning

     

When you reach your 34th week of pregnancy, you should start making preparations for the arrival of your little bundle of joy. This involves preparing for labour and birth. One of the ways in which you can do this is to start having perineal massages. You should do this every day in order to avoid an episiotomy during the birth. This is a small incision that the doctor handling the delivery may have to make in the perineum in order to enlarge the vagina so that baby can slip through much easier.

It is recommended that you start perineal massages in your 34th week. There are two different ways in which you can conduct this massage. You can have a professional therapist give you the massage but due to the part of the body involved most women prefer to take care of this themselves or to have their partner assist them with it. You will need some form of lubricant, such as olive oil, KY jelly, cocoa butter or ordinary vegetable oil. Find a comfortable and private place in your home for your massage so that you won be interrupted.

First of all make sure you wash your hands and then coat them with the lubricant you choose to use. Place your thumbs about an inch inside the vagina and then press downwards and to the sides at the same time. You should keep gently stretching until you feel a slight burning or tingling sensation. Hold the pressure for a few minutes or longer as long as you can stand the sensation. After a while the area will feel a little numb.

While you keep applying the pressure with your thumbs, gently massage the lower section of your vagina working the lubricant into the tissues in the area. Repeat this motion for three or four minutes. While you are giving yourself this type of massage, you have to take care that you avoid the urinary area because you could get an infection from the lubricant. Pull outward on the lower part of the vagina while you massage the area. This will help to stretch the skin so it will be easier for the baby head to slip out during birth. You can do this massage once or twice a day from now until you go into labour.

Research has shown that women who do perform a perineal massage starting in week 34 of their pregnancy still have the perineum intact after the delivery. This is especially true for those giving birth for the first time.

This type of massage does not do any harm to the baby because you are not in contact with the cervix or the birth canal. What helps the mother relax also relaxes the baby, so you may find that the baby movements slow down somewhat during the massage. You can set a particular time of day for your massage, such as just after you get out of the shower or just before you go to bed at night.

For more information on the 34th week of pregnancy,pregnancy week 16 and pregnancy week 38 visit http://www.Pregnancy-WeekbyWeek.info

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The Excitement Of The 17th Week Of Pregnancy

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The 17th week of pregnancy is perhaps the most exciting week of your pregnancy. This is because this is the usual time when you first start feeling the little life that is growing inside you. This starts off as little fluttering movements as the baby starts moving in the uterus. At first you may not even notice them but as they become more frequent, you will unconsciously place your hand on your stomach to see if you can feel anything. If you do have on extra weight, you may not feel it at this point, but you can be looking for it. Those who are slimmer may actually feel movement before the 17th week.

The baby also has brown fat deposits under the skin to help maintain the normal body temperature. It has grown so that it is now about 5 inches long and weighs about five ounces. The ears are almost fully formed and the eyes look to the side. This is usually the time when you have your first ultrasound to get a shadowy glimpse of your baby. The doctor can hear the heartbeat and will let you listen to it when you visit for your regular checkup.

As for you, you will start finding it harder to walk in high heels and prefer flat shoes instead. This is because your feet will get tired more easily, especially if you have to do a lot of standing or walking at work. You may also notice an increase in vaginal discharge, and this is nothing to be alarmed about because it is quite normal.

One of the things expectant moms say about being 17 weeks pregnant is that they start feeling less glamorous and do not want to take the time to dress up or put on makeup. You should take pride in your pregnancy as at this stage you actually do have a glow about you that is evident to others. Your stomach is getting bigger and you can no longer fit into your clothes. With the many new styles in maternity clothing available, you can really dress up and show off your growing belly.

It is safe to engage in sexual activity and since all the morning sickness is over, you will find that you have a renewed interest in lovemaking. You also have more energy and are able to do most of the activities that you were too tired to do in the first trimester. You should take walks to firm up your muscles, but you should also make sure you get enough rest. Relaxing after work with a glass of milk or in the afternoon with a cold glass of lemonade is the perfect way to enjoy being pregnant.

Your breasts will also get larger and you may even have to buy a larger size bra. The area around your nipples will also start to become dark and this is perfectly natural and to be expected. You may start having strange cravings for food as well, which may be junk food. There is nothing wrong with eating junk food once in a while, but you should endeavour to have eat healthy foods.

For more information on the 17th week of pregnancy,11th week of pregnancy and the 34th week of pregnancy visit http://www.Pregnancy-WeekbyWeek.info

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Very Early Signs ?Pregnancy Symptoms To Be Aware Of

Posted by WMMedia in Pregnancy and Family Planning

     

There are very early signs and symptoms that will give you a hint you might be pregnant. The first of these very early signs of pregnancy is a missed menstrual period, but all women are not the same, which means the signs are not the same. They can be different in the intensity and the duration and the same woman can have different signs with each pregnancy. You may attribute your general feeling of not being well to pre-menstrual symptoms and not even realize that you are pregnant until you have missed your menstrual cycle. There is a variety of both physical and emotional symptoms associated with being pregnant that could also be symptomatic of other events in your life.

The most obvious of the early signs of pregnancy is the missed period. However, in women who do not have a regular menstrual period, this may not be a sign for them and it is only when they miss several periods and feel unwell that they realize they may be pregnant. It is quite possible to have a very light period and then you do not even think you could be pregnant at all.

If you have been trying to get pregnant you will look for every possible sign. Many women have an intuitive feeling about this and know when they are pregnant because they know the feelings of their bodies. Some of the very early signs include heartburn after eating certain foods or after eating late at night, feeling unusually tired, having a headache or experiencing a dull ache or stiffness in your lower back.

Generally your breasts start to feel tender and you may notice that they are slightly enlarged. This is usually more noticeable at night when you go to bed and try to get comfortable. The nipples may also become darker in color and be exceptionally sore or sensitive ?so much so that you have to wear different clothing that does rub across them.

Fatigue and exhaustion is one of the very early signs that you may be pregnant. You may find it harder and harder to get up for work each morning or be more tired than usual when you return home from work or shopping. You will probably start to feel sleepy in the afternoons and want to take a nap. If this is really unusual for you, then you start thinking that there may be something wrong. Combined with the need for rest, you will also have to make frequent trips to the bathroom. This is because the uterus is getting larger and is placing pressure on the bladder. Although this is an early sign of pregnancy, it does last for the duration of the pregnancy and even get worse.

By the second month of your pregnancy, you will likely start to feel nauseous when you wake in the morning. The smell of certain foods cooking may make you feel sick and you may not want to eat some of your favourite foods any longer. This is called morning sickness, although it can occur at any time during the day. For many women, it lasts only a short time, but others do have it up until the third trimester and even until the baby is born.

For more information on very early signs of pregnancy,calculating your pregnancy due date and hot flashes during pregnancy;visit http://www.Pregnancy-Articles.com

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